4 Editors Share How Making a Hair Change After a Breakup Made Them Feel in the End

"After my first boyfriend and I broke up at 15, I was devastated enough that I started colouring my hair red. Since my mom refused to let me dye my whole head, we opted to do highlights with red toner that would eventually wash out over time, making it less permanent of a change.

At the time, I didn't correlate the dye-job to the 'earth-shattering' break-up I had, but looking back, I realise I had made this choice subconsciously to make me look and feel different than I did when we dated. The red in my hair made me smile at myself every time I looked in the mirror and helped me move past my very first relationship. To this day, I actually still tone my hair red every year or so. At this point, there's no particular reason why, but I know I'll always look back and be reminded of the girl who finally felt like she did something for herself." — Alanna Martine Kilkeary, associate beauty editor, makeup.com & skincare.com

"I remember wanting to do something especially crazy to my hair when I was in college after ending a friendship with someone I had become really close with in high school. At first I thought of dyeing my hair honey blond, but then I realised that might be a little too drastic of a change for me to handle, so I had my aunt (who is a hairstylist) give me highlights instead. At the time, I honestly didn't understand why I had this sudden urge to change my appearance, but outside of going natural, it was the first time I had ever undergone a big hair change. Dramatics aside, I was proud of myself for going through with it." — Danielle Jackson, assistant beauty editor

"I'm definitely guilty of changing up my hair after basically any life crisis, especially a breakup. When my now-husband and I were on a break in college, I made the spontaneous decision to chop my long hair into a bob. I truly decided within an hour, made a last-minute salon appointment, and said goodbye to eight inches. I think I wanted to feel in control and empowered during an uncertain situation, but I also just wanted to feel new and different. We got back together, but the cut remained my go-to style for a while. I think about going back to it a lot; that bob still feels like me. Is now the time?" — Karenna Meredith, assistant editor, trending & viral features

"I chopped my long hair in the midst of a messy breakup and when he saw me, I could immediately tell he hated it. That was all I needed to see! Good riddance." — Maggie Panos, senior voices editor