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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle [2]'s decision to step back from their royal roles [3] shocked many, but one of the more surprising things [4] born out of their departure from the UK is their friendship with Tyler Perry [5]. The revelation was revealed during the Sussexes' famous joint Oprah interview [6] in March 2021, where they shared that Perry graciously let them and their son, Archie [7], stay in one of his LA homes after the palace cut off their security protection.
At the time, very little was shared about the trio's friendship and how it began. But Harry and Markle's Netflix docuseries [8], which released its final episodes on 15 Dec., delves more into how the three of them grew close with new accounts [9] from Perry himself. Similar to the story Markle recalled in her The Cut profile [10], the Hollywood mogul shares that he first connected with Markle after seeing reports regarding her father Thomas Markle's staged photos from 2018.
"I found it to be hurtful if he were my father," Perry says in the docuseries. "And I couldn't even imagine this woman finding the man that she loved, the man of her dreams and him being a prince, and then have to walk into all of that madness, and need the security of family and have your father do some horrible things."
Referencing what he also went through with his family when fame came into play, Perry adds that he knew "how hurtful and how horrible it can be" and that he "empathised with her," so much so that he sent her a note before her and Harry's May 2018 wedding [11], writing that he was "praying for her just to be able to move through it."
Later, Markle adds that Perry's note also stated that if she ever needed anything, she could let him know. And she did because, years later, while she and Harry were staying in Canada, she called Perry to vent about what she was going through with the royal family. "I was just a wreck," Markle says. "I was just crying and crying. Sometimes it's easier to just open up to someone who knows nothing at all, and that was that moment with me and Tyler."
Read ahead for everything else we learned about how Harry and Markle's friendship with Perry came to be.
- Perry compared Markle's tumultuous experience as a royal family member to Princess Diana's. In the docuseries, Perry recalls the time Diana was once cornered by paparazzi at the airport, which got so bad that she had to use a tennis racket to hide her face from cameras. "I realised that after the marriage ended, she was thrown to the wolves," he says. "So, to tell Meghan that I felt her feelings were valid hurt. I didn't want to have to say that to her . . . but I didn't want to lie to her."
- Perry offered Harry and Markle a place to stay before ever formally meeting them. Most of Perry's initial contact with Markle and Harry was via phone, so none of them met in person until the couple arrived at his house in California. The pair, plus Archie, stayed at Perry's home for six weeks total before the press found out about their location.
- Perry commended Harry and Markle for stepping away from the royal family. After claiming that the two were abused by the royal family — using the institution to "do all the things a batterer would do" like cutting off access to money and security — Perry says he admired them for standing their ground and not cracking under the pressure. "For both of them to have the wherewithal to say, 'I don't give a damn if it's the palace, I'm out of here,' I applauded that."
- Perry called Markle a "classy, elegant" woman for how she spoke about the royal family in her and Harry's interview with Oprah. "There's so much more she could've said," Perry notes of what she divulged during the televised conversation. "Because she's such a classy, elegant woman, she didn't."
- Harry and Markle asked Perry to be Lilibet's godfather. After their daughter was born, Perry says the couple called him and asked him about the sweet honour. "They were pretty serious on the phone," he explains. "I go, "OK, what's going on?' They said, 'Well, we'd like for you to be Lili's godfather.' I go, 'Whoa.' I had to take a minute to take that in. I said, 'I'd be honoured. I'd be absolutely honoured.'" Though he accepted the title, Perry says he declined to attend Lilibet's christening if it had to take place in the UK.