It's up to Anna Wintour. The Vogue editor doesn't just approve the guest list, but also the seating charts and everyone's outfits. Monday night at the Met is for Hollywood's elite, including iconic singers like Cher and Madonna and many of the same actors who show up to Vanity Fair's afterparty following the Oscars. Of course, supermodels, designers, photographers, and even royals like Queen Rania of Jordan attend too. Anna Wintour and her daughter Bee Shaffer are always first to arrive, in order to oversee every detail.