Not all lubes are created equally [1], and selecting the right one for your sexual activity is key to maximizing pleasure. When it comes to anal sex [2] and water play, they specifically call for silicone-based formulas that keep friction at bay. Using a water-based lubricant in the shower, for example, isn't an ideal choice since it'll wash right off and cause things to come to a screeching halt (yeah, ouch). Instead, silicone is the way to go, whether you're getting it on in the tub (scrub it down first!) or engageing in backdoor play. But also beware of slippery surfaces, like the tile floor, as silicone is designed to be long-lasting and glassy.
Because silicone-based lubes are not water soluble — which also makes them great to use for sensual body massages — they're very difficult to wash off of sheets. So, keep your fancy Egyptian cotton far away. The good news, though, is that it washes off skin easily with soap and water. It's also important to note that while they're safe to use with condoms, they are not compatible with silicone toys and will damage them. And even though silicone is an ideal ingredient for water sex, stay away from bacteria-infested pools and hot tubs [3].
If you're in the market for some quality silicone lube, see five of our recommendations ahead.
Überlube
This luxury lubricant keeps things silky smooth as long as you're using it. Once you allow the product to sit, it begins to disappear and leaves skin soft and moisturised. With Überlube [4] ($18), you'll never have to worry about the formula being too sticky or wet.
Lush Silicone-Based Lubricant
Lush silicone lube [5] ($16) is long-lasting and advertised to have a "natural feel." In addition to being waterproof and odor-free, its formula is designed for sensitive skin, making it safe for all. Not to mention its discreet, spill-proof bottle, which looks totally unassuming.
Astroglide X Silicone Lubricant
This premium hypoallergenic product was made for water play. Astroglide X [6] ($9) is made of a hyper-slick formula that allows for hours of pleasure without dryness or irritation.
Sliquid Naturals Silver
Made for women, by women, Sliquid Naturals Silver [7] ($15) is a pharmaceutical-grade lube that's made to last. A little goes a long way with this waterproof product, plus it washes off easily with soap and water.
Passion Silicone Lubricant
Passion Silicone Lubricant [8] ($14) stays slick and never dries, leaving your skin feeling smooth and soft. Its spill-proof bottle will let you focus on the important stuff, and once you're done, clean-up is easy with soap and water.