The festive season is upon us, and chances are you have a lot of shopping to do. Vibrators [1] don't usually come to mind as a go-to stocking filler, but hear us out. Sex toys are a gift people will actually use and enjoy year-round — they're fun and thoughtful, and they encourage your loved ones to celebrate their own pleasure. Your kinky friends, a partner, or a loved one in a long-distance relationship may especially love a brand-new toy.
Gifting a sex toy certainly requires a level of tact. In general, you should give sex toys or accessories to people you know will enjoy and appreciate the sentiment rather than take a gamble and risk offending someone. If you can, talk to your partner, loved one, or friend before the investment to make sure it's a welcome gift.
When shopping for sex toys as a gift, it's all about the basics: quality and usability. Unless you know your loved one really well, it's a good rule of thumb to give a reliable, versatile sex toy [2] that can speak to a range of sexual interests rather than a super-niche toy that may not have wide appeal. You'll find a range of options ahead, including vibrators, gender-neutral toys, and travel-friendly options.
Amour by Je Joue
Perfect for newbies, this bullet vibrator features a heart-shaped tip that gives playful, fluttering sensations. The Amour Bullet Vibrator [3] (£50) can be used to tease yourself or your partner by brushing it across pleasure points such as the clitoris, nipples, testicles, and vulva.
Satisfyer Love Triangle Connect App
The Satisfyer Love Triangle [4] (£60) is a crowd pleaser because it combines air pulsation and vibration to create a versatile sex toy. The air pulse, when applied to the vulva and especially the clit, feels very similar to oral sex, and the vibration can be switched on or off depending on the user's preference. The toy itself is small and great for travel and fairly quiet. Its unique triangular design fits in the hand easily, making it perfect for masturbation or partnered sex.
Mia 2 by Lelo
A bullet vibrator is a no-nonsense basic that's perfect for anyone new to using sex toys, or feeling a bit intimidated by larger toys. The Mia 2 [5] (£79) is a discreet, rechargeable vibrator perfect for a drawer, an overnight bag, or travel. Made for external use on the clit and vulva, Mia 2 encourages exploration and is one of the best starter vibes.
Dame Com Wand Vibrator
Com Wand Vibrator [6] (£125) is everything a good vibrator should be: sleek, simple to use, and high quality. Made of medical-grade silicone and sporting five intensity settings, it can be used for both internal and external play. And because it's waterproof, you can explore in the bath or shower.
Vita by Je Joue
Bullet vibrators come in all shapes and sizes but the Vita Bullet Vibrator [7] is truly unique. The rounded tip is perfect for giving a more pinpoint pleasure and the silicone material is flexible for easy use around all body parts.
Poco by MysteryVibe
Poco [8] (£119) is a powerful (two motors!) and user-friendly vibrator. What sets Poco apart from the pack is the bendable design, which was made to mimic the dexterity of human fingers. It's perfect for internal G-spot stimulation or for external use as a clit stimulator. Bonus: you can connect Poco to an app and create your own vibrational patterns or get a partner involved in the fun.
We-Vibe Chorus
We-Vibe Chorus [9] (£179) is a perfect toy for any couple but especially those in a long-distance relationship. Worn during sex, Chorus is made to be intuitive to your body's natural responses, heightening vibration as you squeeze down on them. Unlock remote-control features with the We-Vibe app to play any time you want, hands free.
Womanizer Duo
The Womanizer Duo [10] (£189) is essentially two toys in one small package made for both clit and G-spot stimulation. With 12 intensity levels, 10 vibrational patterns, and two different sizes for the stimulator head, this toy adapts to every and anyone's body. It's basically the Cadillac of toys.
JOMO London CBD Arousal Oil
Massage in this blend of botanical oils and CBD for the ultimate feel-good treat. The CBD Arousal Oil [11] (£48) aims to improve blood flow, reduce anxiety, and increase intimacy.
Maude Vibe
The Maude Vibe [12] (£42) is simple in the best way possible. It's elegant, near silent, and powerful with three speeds and 2.5 hours of play on a single charge. Water-resistant and made of platinum-grade silicone, it's the perfect starter vibe.
Unbound Babes Booty Basics Set
If your loved one is already stocked with vibrators, consider giving them a butt plug instead. The Unbound Silicone Plug [13] (£25) is perfect for beginners. Team with the Unbound Jelly [14] (£15) for a set.
ohhcean OBP-03 Body Vibrator
Looking for a more sustainable option? The OBP-03 Body Vibrator [15] (£5) is made with ocean-bound plastic. With seven vibration patterns and a thin layer of silicone, it's compact and eco-friendly.