Benefits of Marrying Someone Older Than You

1 They're More Mature

They know the importance of communication and are willing to talk things out. They understand that relationships are about giving and taking, and they're even willing to accept fault when they're wrong.

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2 They're More Responsible

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You don't have to worry that they're going to blow your life savings on something ridiculous or sign up for some crazy career path. They've lived enough to know the roles of adulthood and accept their responsibility in your life together.

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3 They're Stable

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They're beyond the point of trying to find their identity. They know who they are and they're focussed on the bigger picture. When you're ready to start a family, they will be, too.

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4 They Know What They Want

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Not only do they know who they are, they know exactly what they want. They're not marrying you to see how it works out and aren't into playing games. They're confident they want to spend the rest of their life with you when they decide to ask for your hand.

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5 They've Already Sowed Their Wild Oats

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You don't have to worry that they're out looking for other people to date. They know what they're looking for in a partner and are happy to have found it in you.

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6 They Have More Life Experience

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You can trust their judgment. They've likely been in at least one long-term relationship, and these past successes and failures have helped shape who they've become. They're probably willing to give you some advice along the way, too.

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7 They're Not Afraid of Intimacy

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Older partners make excellent lovers. They've learned a thing or two about chemistry and physical connection through all those life experiences. They'll be as passionate about you with the doors closed as they are when they're bragging about you to their friends.

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8 There’s No Drama

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With maturity comes growth, and they probably stay far away from petty drama. They're looking to make memories, settle down, and build a future, and are much more likely to appreciate the important things in life.

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9 They've Got Old-Fashioned Values

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They know exactly how to sweep you off your feet and make you feel special. Older partners usually have old-fashioned values, like holding the door open for you, surprising you with flowers, and always reminding you that they love you.

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10 They Appreciate the Finer Things in Life

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They'll teach you to stop and enjoy the little things, like intimate dinner conversations, raw emotions, and a good walk on the beach. They'll always encourage you to put your phone down and live in the moment.

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11 They'll Prove That Age Is Just a Number

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If you've got an unmatched connection, age shouldn't matter anyway. Whether they're 10 or 20 years older than you, or even if you're the older partner, age has nothing to do with love.

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