If These 30 Signs Sound Familiar, You Need to Get Out of Your Relationship ASAP

It's nice to consider your partner's thoughts and feelings when making decisions, but it shouldn't be only one of you who can give the go ahead. You should have full freedom to do what you want.

If all your energy is being put toward arguing or trying to keep your SO satisfied, that's a problem. A healthy relationship is happy and fulfilling.

You should never have to suppress certain parts of you to make your SO accept you. If they can't love all of you, then they sure as hell don't deserve you.

You might think you're helping your relationship by letting things go, but not addressing the issues as they appear will have consequences later. The fear of getting broken up with or getting into another argument isn't reason enough to be passive.

A little jab here and a condescending tone there are absolutely unacceptable. If your partner loves you as much as they claim they do, they would never put you down in any way.

Even the happiest of couples have their moments, but if it's a daily war zone, how happy can you two really be? Don't mistake fighting for passion.

Your relationship will be at a standstill if previous issues are constantly being resurfaced. You won't be able to grow as a couple if you're stuck in relationships past. It's easy to bring up an already-resolved problem in the heat of the moment, but don't let it become ammunition — or else your SO can use it to get their way.

Staying in contact with each other throughout the day can have its benefits, but to a certain extent. Constant check-ups are a sign of a distrust, and fighting via text disturbs productivity at work. Being unable to separate your personal life and professional life ruins your focus and mood.

In a healthy relationship, no single person should have complete control or say. A partnership is just that — a partnership.

That constant anxiety of not knowing the state of your relationship can be debilitating. "Is he/she mad at me?" "What did I do this time?" These are not questions that one should have to worry about in a healthy partnership.

No one should ever make you feel like you're anything less or unworthy. A caring partner should remind you of how much you mean to them and how amazing you are, even if you don't require the reminders.

Regardless of it being in the heat of the moment or a "one-time thing," you should never, ever feel or be threatened.

Two people in a relationship should inspire each other to be their best selves. They shouldn't act as a trigger for the other even when they do know exactly which buttons to push. You'll never be completely happy together if your dark halves often come out.

It's easy to let things go if your SO who rarely shows affection actually does show affection. But it can become a cycle of repeated behavior and make them think they can get away with anything.

Sure, it may sound nice to have some space between the two of you now and then. But if being without your partner completely even sounds like a better choice, run with it.

It's a major problem if you don't have a say in your relationship. If having an opinion is enough to spark a fight, you are not in a good place.

The threat of breaking up with you is a manipulative way for one to maintain control — don't fall for it. It means they're insecure and have no other means to stay in power.

You'll want to come to your SO's defense because you care about them and, as much as you hate to admit, because you care about what others think about your relationship. It's not your responsibility, however, to justify their misbehaviors.

It's exhausting and unfair to always have to take the fall for any bumps in your relationship. If your SO can't take responsibility for their mistakes, it's not your job to fix it all. Pointing the finger is easier than owning up to it.

When one person has so much influence in the relationship, their values and opinions will undoubtedly shape yours. If your partner imposes their beliefs on you rather than respecting your own, you might even start thinking in the same way and become convinced that you're in the wrong.

A healthy relationship has a balance of time spent together and apart. Investing all your energy into your SO can make you ignore everyone else and push loved ones out of your life.

The fear of being alone or being unable to find someone better than your current partner can be paralyzing. You can't imagine a life without them, even if that life may not be ideal.

A relationship should be easy and fun. When it's a constant uphill battle, the occasional good moments might make it seem like it's worth staying when, in reality, it's not worth any more effort.

Any partnership should have mutual respect, period. If they're a decent human being, they will treat you with the utmost respect without question. Never tolerate anything less.