My husband was the person who reminded me of this one. The day we were getting released from the hospital, I felt hormonal and exhausted and lashed out at one of my older kids for being too loud. "What's wrong with me?" I asked him. "Um, you just had a baby, you've been in the hospital, and you just want to go home," he replied. He made a lot of sense. I'd urge other moms to allow themselves to feel whatever they feel without judgment. And to remember that it gets better!