The tutus and the ballet slippers. The music and the lights. The endless hours of practicing. The passion and the drive [1]. Dancers, no matter how small, are truly extraordinary and dance moms are definitely one of a kind. Their tremendous amount of support [2] and dedication to their dancer and the dance studio is absolutely amazing and should be recognised and commended. Here are the top 10 things you'll only understand if you're a dance mom.
Your Family's Life Revolves Around Dance
Your family's life, especially family holidays [4] and doctor's appointments, are scheduled with careful consideration of when dance recitals, dance competitions, and picture days are held, because you don't want your child to miss a single one. You always make sure your child never misses dance class or practice, of course.
You Have the Recital Bag Checklist Memorized
No need to look at a checklist! You've done this so many times, you've got that sucker memorized. From the hair essentials [5], like a comb and bobby pins, to the emergency items, like a Tide-to-Go Stain Remover Pen and Dramamine, you've got everything covered to make sure your child shines in the spotlight!
You Buy Your Kid Every Dance Shirt You Can Find
"Live, Love, Dance." "It's a Dance Thing." "Keep Calm and Dance On." Basically, if a shirt has the word "Dance" on it, you just have to buy it [6] for your little dancer, who you know will wear it proudly.
You Know Backstage Is Beautifully Organised Chaos
To the naked eye, backstage looks like a blur of tutus, leotards, sequins, and glitter. There are dancers running around, quickly changing into their costumes and making sure their hair and makeup look flawless. Although it might appear chaotic, the dancers, instructors, and dance moms [7] are actually extremely organised backstage and know exactly what they are doing.
When You Buy Dance Shoes, You Buy the Next Size Up Too
You know how quickly your little dancer's feet are growing, so when it is time to purchase new dance shoes for them, you make sure to also purchase the next size up. That way, your child will be ready to dance their little heart out without delay when they hit a growth spurt [8].
You Know How to Put Your Child's Hair in a Bun in 5 Minutes or Less
What used to take you a long time to get perfect now takes you mere minutes. You now laugh about the days when you used to follow a hair bun YouTube tutorial along [9] as you did your daughter's hair. You could totally make your own tutorial video now!
You Are Constantly Moving Furniture at Home
In order for your child to practice their dance routines at home, they need quite a bit of space. You find yourself constantly moving the couch [10] and coffee table to provide your dancer with enough room to practice their dances (while not accidentally knocking over your antique vase).
The Dance Studio Feels Like Your Second Home
Your family is at the dance studio so much that it feels like you live there sometimes. But what makes the dance studio really feel like home is the amazing people. [11] From the director to the instructors to the other dancers, everyone there has watched your child grow and blossom. They are all so welcoming and supportive and it is amazing that they all share in your child's same wonderful passion — to dance.