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16 Times Women Got Brutally Honest About Why They Love Their Postpartum Bodies

27/08/2018 - 07:40 PM

Whether your have a C-section [1] or deliver your baby vaginally, recovering from birth can be a long and hard process. So you know what the very last thing new moms need to deal with is? Pressure about getting their bodies back [2] to how they looked during the prepregnancy days. Thankfully, more women have utilized social media to explain why they're in absolutely no rush to "bounce back" [3] after having a baby — and frankly, we feel a little less alone.

From celebs showing off their stretch marks [4] to moms of multiple kiddos who are simply in awe of what that they've physically accomplished in giving birth, scroll through to see some seriously body-positive images that will remind you what being a mother is all about.

"I remember after giving birth to Cree, my belly didn't all of a sudden go flat [5]. I did have a C-Section (as well as with my second pregnancy), and I thought something was wrong with me. I had seen in magazines the many women on the beach a few weeks postpartum in a two piece. To be honest, it had to take time for me to embrace my new body. With this second pregnancy, I now have embraced that fact that I've housed a human being. A miracle. A life. If it takes a while for me to get back to my normal self, than so be it. This. Is. Me. And I love me." — Tia Mowry

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"I am a firm believer that we need to break the mold that society has built on how moms and postpartum bodies should look . . . I stopped body shaming myself, and I truly feel comfortable in my own skin now. My body tells a story with every stretchmark. And I love that!" — Amanda

"Be kind to [yourself], be forgiving and enjoy who you are today because you will look back and wish you hadn't worried about your body the way you did. Go out, have fun, don't let it hold you back. You are beautiful, flaunt it!" — Kai

"My body has changed shapes throughout the years, and yet again through pregnancy and my two years postpartum. I've never been overly self-conscious with my physical shape, it's been more of me feeling my body has failed me which causes the most anguish. From my ruptured appendix, to scar adhesion pain, to 36 hour labor turned emergency C-section, and now still dealing with scar adhesion pain, I have many low days hating and blaming my body for failing me. I'm still working on trusting my body." — Zoe

"Today my confidence is the highest it has ever been. This has not happened overnight or easily. The first time I got pregnant I felt ugly, fat, unsexy, and unlovable. I hated what was happening to my body and the lack of control I had over it. I put so much importance on the climbing number that the scale showed each week. After I gave birth I put so much pressure and expectation on my body to 'bounce back' with a matter of weeks . . . When my second was born, he was two months early. I forgot about my insecurities and internal dilemmas and focus every ounce of energy into helping him grow." — Kat

"Growing up I always struggled with body image. Then in my early adulthood I was always just trying to get back to the body I had 3 . . . 5 . . . 9 years ago. When I was pregnant, I truly and utterly started to love my body. What it was growing inside made me realise how beautiful it was on the outside." — Jessica

"Several months ago I was given an opportunity from the TV show, The Doctor's, to have a non-invasive tummy tuck. They called me 'the perfect candidate.' To be honest, I have never once considered a tummy tuck, not because I don't support them but because I do my best to love my body for what is now. I declined the offer twice and had to follow my heart." — Desiree Fortin

"Instagram is crazy. I think it's awesome people have killer bodies and are proud to show them off (I really do!), but I know how hard it can be to forget what (for lack of a better word) regular ol' bodies look like when everyone looks bonkers amazing [6]." — Chrissy Teigen

"I felt like I should share where I'm at post-baby [7]. It sure is incredible what the body can do and I'm so grateful! I know I say this after each baby but remember what our bodies just when through for nine months and be proud, don't stress over post baby body, just enjoy your new baby because these are beautiful moments and memories you will cherish forever." — Jessie James Decker

"Because I'm not embarrassed by the scars my body now carries [8]. Because I'm proud of what my body has done for me. Because many women feel the need to hide it. Because famous women post "look at my body just three weeks postpartum" and portray unrealistic images of what it means to be a mother. Because I feel beautiful in my own skin — even if there's a lotttt of it! Because beauty takes many forms. Because I can. Because you should also be proud. This is me . . . because I love my body." — Eliza Curby

""Life can't get anymore perfect than this. This was happening and I intended to take this picture to somehow explain myself and explain why this is beautiful. But no, this is plain perfect, no need to explain why." — Daniela Guerrero

"After each of my pregnancies, I have looked at my body and wondered where the hell my 'perfect body' went [9], and when did my stomach become, according to my oldest daughter, 'old looking?'" But then I look at the baby fussing in her little bouncer and her rambunctious 3-year-old sister tending to her by putting her binky in her mouth, and I realise my body went to my children." — Nichole LaBreche Frank

"Not all women's bellies get jacked like mine and it does make me sad (yes my tummy gets a lot of looks). But it is what it is. I can be embarrassed and have a messed up tummy or accept it and have a messed up tummy [10]. There are hundreds and hundreds of women who would give up their perfect stomachs in return to have what I have, without thinking twice about it. So I won't think twice about it either." — Jessica


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