The Best Toddler Parenting Tips From Big Little Feelings

OK the Feelings

Margolin and Gallant said their number one tip for toddler parenting is to OK the feelings. "All feelings are OK, all behaviours are not," Gallant said. "When you validate your kid's feelings, they feel like you're on their side, no matter what the situation is." By giving them space to feel whatever they're feeling, you can start to shift your kid's behaviour.

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Set Boundaries, and Stick to Them

"Setting boundaries is a crucial piece of the program," Margolin said. "The more you hold boundaries, the more you will see a shift in behaviour." Gallant used screen time as an example. "If you tell your kid they have to put their iPad away, and then give in when they freak out, they learn that if they freak out more, they get what they want." Consistency is key. Boundaries take a lot of repetition, but your persistence will pay off.

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Try the Timer Trick

This toddler trick is on of both Margolin and Gallant favourite tips — try it on literally anything. Little one doesn't want to leave the playground? Have them set a timer for three minutes. When the timer goes off, time to go! You will be amazed at how fast your kid skips to the car. Toddler doesn't want to transition from playtime to lunch time? Timer! Have them set it for a few minutes, and like magic, they'll happily go eat lunch when the timer goes off.

"OK the feeling, then have them set the timer," Deena said. "This is our favourite trick because it works right away!" It works because you're setting up expectations. There's no meltdown because your toddler has been warned of what exactly is about to happen.

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Let Yourself Have a Meltdown

Sometimes you're going to feel overwhelmed as a parent, no matter how many tips or tricks you have in your parenting arsenal. "Feeling empowered is so important, and our course helps you feel that way," Gallant said. "When you know how to stay calm and in control, things feel easier."

For the times when you're at the end of your patience, recognise it and take some time for you. "We're big fans of the cry walk," Margolin said. "Go on a walk alone and let it all out." And if you don't have a partner or enough help to be able to do that, prioritise restoring activities after bedtime and let the guilt go. The laundry can wait, but your feelings can't!

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