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How Many Kids Does Idris Elba Have?

Idris Elba Just Revealed he Has a Secret Older Son Who Is Out of the Spotlight

How Many Kids Does Idris Elba Have?
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Hollywood heartthrob Idris Elba has been turning heads in all his roles over the years, including in "The Harder They Fall," "The Suicide Squad," the Avengers films, and yes, even "Cats." But beyond his acting career, People's former Sexiest Man Alive has another major role in his life: being a father to his children, daughter Isan, whom he shares with ex-wife Kim Nørgaard, and son Winston, whom he shares with former girlfriend Naiyana Garth. While it has been widely believed Elba is a dad of two, he revealed in an interview with the Mail on Sunday's YOU magazine on 12 March that he has a third child, too who prefers to be kept out of the spotlight.

"I have three kids actually. I have an older son, who's 31, though I wouldn't want to put him out there [by naming him] unless he was here [to consent to it]," Elba said. Little is known about his eldest, but it's clear the "Luther: The Fallen Sun" star loves being a dad. "But I view parenting as a gift and an absolute honour. You are lucky to have children: that whole magical, wonderful thing called procreation works and out comes this beautiful human being that is their own person, ten fingers, ten toes, and they can communicate with you and learn from you."

Elba's two younger children have been spotted out at a handful of events with the actor and his wife, Sabrina Dhowre Elba, but they rarely appear on his social media pages. Despite keeping his kids on the downlow, Elba has never been shy about bragging about his title as a proud dad. He had a candid conversation with People in November 2018 and recalled how much he cares for his kids.

"Being witness to the birth of my children, happy and healthy, is the biggest, biggest, most best thing ever," he said, also admitting that he's been one of those embarrassing dads "plenty of times." "But I tend to be conscious of my daughter's space. I'm super doting as a dad. Big hugs, kisses, lots of love-yous and all of that. I'm sure my daughter's like, 'All right dad, chill out.' My son, he gets it. But [Winston is] still at that age where he loves a cuddle."

Elba also talked about raising his kids in a February 2023 interview with Esquire UK. "My children love me and maybe that's helped me love myself a bit more," he said. He added that he doesn't give his kids different advice because one is a boy and one is a girl. "Boys and girls are different but you aren't as a parent. Dad advice is dad advice. I'm not going to give my daughter different advice from my son because she's a girl," he explained.

Elba once took his daughter as his date to the Oscars, and according to an interview with Cosmopolitan, she was "NOT chilled out" about the experience (can you blame her?). Ahead, find out more about Isan and Winston, and see the Elba family's cutest photos together.

Additional reporting by Njera Perkins

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