4 Types of Apologies Anyone With Siblings Will Be Very, Very Familiar With

Out of all of my siblings, I'm closest to my sister, and something must be in the air if we don't have a random argument every other month. Sometimes, her way of apologising after an argument is to lure me in with funny family gossip. After hearing from her about my mom's latest message on Whatsapp or what's gone down between my great aunt and her husband, I have no choice but to let bygones be bygones.

One luxury of having a sibling is that they sometimes have more access to your life than the average person. Consequently, they probably know everything about you, from your home address to your least favourite nicknames. This comes in handy when it's time to apologise by showing up and pretending like nothing happened (and then maybe apologising if they feel really bad). If they're anything like my brothers, they'll also come with an empty stomach. Nothing puts the past behind us like food!

Peace offerings are something siblings are well-versed in. When you were younger, they probably looked like a piece of candy in exchange for your silence after they wronged you. These days, they're a little more extravagant. My sister's most legendary peace offering to date has to be free babysitting. Honestly, best apology ever.

My older brother and I once had an argument that lead to over a year of silence between us. Guess what came in to save the day? A family meeting. I was ambushed and given a sermon about the importance of family, love, and forgiveness. As usual, it lead to forced apologies, extended eye rolls, and side-eyes. However, the forced apologies reminded me that there's nowhere to run or hide. Because we're family, our paths will always cross, so the sooner we get over it –– the better. Shortly after the family meeting, we were taking strolls back down memory lane, sharing inside family jokes, and poking fun at one another. He is my brother, after all.