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Don't Let Rain Ruin Your Wedding Day — Here's How to Be Prepared

15/11/2018 - 04:25 PM

"It's like raaain, on your wedding daaay." We might have sung along to those Alanis Morissette lyrics hundreds of times, but rain on your wedding day is likely to be met with much less enthusiasm. Your hair will be ruined, your white dress muddy, and guests cold and grumpy. Don't want your wedding to be a total washout? You can't do anything about the weather on your big day, especially if you're an Autumn bride [1]. You can spend the week of your wedding crossing your fingers for sunshine, but we think it's far better to be prepared. Follow our tips, and your rainy wedding day will be memorable for all of the right reasons.

Have a Back-Up Plan

If you're getting married in the UK, rain is a likely part of the proceedings. Make sure you pick a venue that has a beautiful indoor alternative if you need it. Most venues in the UK plan for exactly this — if you're opting for an outdoor space, this often includes a conservatory or adjoining room where your guests can keep warm and dry if the weather turns. That space should be as beautiful as your original location, but double check before signing on the dotted line that you're not paying for bland and ugly conference room for your plan B.

If you have your heart set on a wedding in the woods, you're going to want a barn, or at least some canopies in the trees, where your guests can shelter. If you're determined to have your ceremony outside no matter what the weather, then it's down to you to keep your guests dry and warm. They'll need umbrellas, waterproofs, and stiletto protectors to stop high heels from sinking into the mud.

Rethink Your Hair and Makeup

If you were opting for long flowing hair but your hair frizzes at the mere mention of rain, it's worth having a back-up plan and going for an updo if it starts pouring on the morning of your big day. It'll be much easier to fix if you do get caught in the rain. Make sure you've got a bridesmaid on standby with cordless straighteners and smoothing spray so you can make the necessary touch ups. A veil might well come in handy if rain is likely, giving you an extra layer of protection. Oh, and make sure your mascara and eyeliner is waterproof, you might need it for more than just tears during the vows!

Prep Your Bridal Party

Make sure someone has got a "wedding brolly." It doesn't have to be white, but it shouldn't be a massive promotional golf-sized umbrella you got at a conference. Keeping a bride dry isn't a one-person job. You'll need someone to hold your brolly while someone else is keeping your dress high above any puddles. Although it doesn't make for the most elegant of arrivals, consider popping your wedding shoes in a bag and switching at the venue so they don't get ruined in muddy puddles before you make your way down the aisle.

Don't Let It Take Over Your Day

If you're lucky, those cloudy skies might clear by the afternoon, but if they don't, you're going to get wet and there's not much you can do about it. Well-meaning guests [2] will keep helpfully inform you that your beautiful white shoes are getting muddy and say what a shame it is that it's not sunny. Ignore it. Unless there is actual thunder and lightning or a power cut which is impossible to ignore, keep it out of the speeches. Beam a huge smile and change the subject when anyone mentions it. If you're not talking about it, no one else will either. The day is about you and your beloved, not the weather.

Choose Your Photographer Carefully

"Choose a photographer that can show you how they shoot in wet or dark weather," advised wedding photographer Lina Orsino-Allen of Lina & Tom [3]. "Ask questions — what happens to family group photos, do they have a plan? Most photographers have the basic skills to light up an umbrella, but if you're really worried about rain, choose someone who has shown some real creative flair in bad weather before."

And Trust Them!

"If the heavens have opened but your photographer is still encouraging you out, don't worry about getting your dress dirty and go for it," said Lina. "After all, it can be dry cleaned and it's important you enjoy the day to its fullest. Maybe you'll look back at your wedding photos and say 'I'm so happy it rained!'"


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