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Nico Tortorella Beauty Interview

Yeah, Younger's Nico Tortorella Loves Makeup, Heels, and Tattoos — What About It?

Nico Tortorella, of TV Land's megahit Younger, grew up playing with makeup and wearing heels. For them, gender lines weren't so clearly divided — that was just the norm.

"My mom always had me and my little brother involved in her beauty regimens," Tortorella told POPSUGAR in an interview at Play/Ground. "She owned a bar when I was younger, so we grew up in the nightlife scene. She would get herself all dolled up to go out, and we would blast Donna Summers or disco and help her put on her makeup and hair. We just played around."

They loved (and continue to love) using beauty as a form of artistry, a fact of which wasn't an issue until they got older, "and then it was like, 'This isn't allowed anymore,'" they said. Luckily, Tortorella found an outlet in theatre, playing "dress-up and make-believe" on stage. "It's where I could let this queer expression fly without it being deemed inherently queer."

Today, the actor has thrown all the f*cks about gender constructs and societal norms out the window, walking the MTV Movie and TV Awards wearing cobalt eyeliner and highlighter with pride and getting married in a white dress because it was "everything we've ever dreamed of." Keep reading for more ways Tortorella is paving their own path — although, it all boils down to one underlining message: "I want to change the way that I look without having surgery to do it," they said. "I want to be able to transform."

How Nico Tortorella Found His Own Queerdom

Finding Tortorella's special brand of queerness has been a lifelong journey, and there have been multiple different people who've been part of it. "Everyone in my life has been a queer figure to some degree — even the people who aren't queer," they said. "I think about my mom [pictured here] a lot. I think about my step-dad. I think about my brother and the people in my family who aren't queer at all. Nobody perfectly fits these archetypes and tropes that we put on pedestals in society; there's always something a little off kilter about people. So, I have taken a bit of everything from everyone to create my own queerdom."

The Meaning Behind Nico Tortorella's Kings and Queens Tattoo

Tortorella has a smattering of tattoos, but there's one recent piece of ink that holds a special place in their heart: "This is kings and queens and space between," they said, pointing to the deck of cards design on their left wrist. "The queen is on the king and the king is on the queen; it's gender f*ckery, and it's really about deconstructing the binary and the division that exists between male and female and the infinite space that lives between. It's a pretty special piece. My new book is called Space Between, that's coming out September 17, and this is an ode to that."

Why Gender Fluid Fashion is the Future

"The world is on fire and everyone's like, 'Let's dress up!' Tortorella said during the Power Your Pride panel at Play/Ground. "The fluidity in that is the ability to play. Where a suit. Wear a dress. Wear a jock strap. Wear whatever you want. The sooner we embrace the dynamic, multidimensional gaze that's inside every single one of us, the sooner we'll get to freedom."

On the Power of Social Media

"When I started the podcast, The Love Bomb, I was really on my own personal journey of understanding the [LGBTQ+] community," they said during the P/G panel. "Young people were reaching out to me on Instagram, trusting me so much with their coming out stories."

This was when Tortorella decided to be real on social media. "These stories are the most traumatic, they dig deep — when kids are talking about violence and suicide, I feel a responsibility in that. So many people put what they want you to see on social media. That's not me. That will never be me."

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