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On Staying True to Herself and Being 100 Percent "That B*tch"

  • "I made a decision to be myself because I knew I had no choice. Sometimes the label 'unapologetic' bothers me because it can be loaded, because it means we have to apologise for something in the first place. I'm not ignorant to the fact that we had to have a demeanour of lowering ourselves culturally just to exist. But I'm trying to shake up the narrative about how we're supposed to act."
  • "I don't think that loving yourself is a choice. I think that it's a decision that has to be made for survival; it was in my case. Loving myself was the result of answering two things: 'Do you want to live? Cause this is who you're gonna be for the rest of your life. Or are you gonna just have a life of emptiness, self-hatred and self-loathing?' And I chose to live, so I had to accept myself."
  • "When I have to make decisions, I always choose honesty and I always stay true to myself, because I know at the end of the day that is what's going to remain," she says. "That is what's going to be the legend: That I was true to myself and that I honoured every person by staying truthful to them."
  • "I didn't have enough women to look up to and they weren't given enough space in the industry to carve out a lane for big girls that are brown and black and want to sing and dance without getting sh*t-talked and body shamed. I'm out here and I set my mind to it. I want to be a sex symbol and music goddess and I'm out here trying to make that happen for myself. I'm here for the fantasy but I want to be a part of that fantasy. I'm just as fine as those girls."