For the most part, Cole doesn't talk much about his personal life, but his Instagram features his girlfriend, Greenley, and he's mentioned her a couple of times in interviews. "I remember the first time I brought my girlfriend over, Kamala's like, 'Can you make a Caesar dressing?' She was like, 'Uh...'" he mentioned offhand in a Glamour interview.
Cole's work in Hollywood keeps him in California, where, from the looks of things, he and his girlfriend have been living for a little while now. Back in Feb. 2019, Cole posted an Instagram picture captioned "Big Move (2019)" with the couple in what looks like an in-progress move-in.