Deanna Pappas was the Bachelorette in 2008 (after competing on season 11 of The Bachelor), and although we thought she found love with Jesse Csincsak, they called it quits in November 2008. Don't feel too bad for Deanna, however, because she did find love in The Bachelor family! She married Stephen Stagliano, the twin brother of Michael Stagliano, who was on Jillian Harris's season of The Bachelorette.
They tied the knot in October 2011 and now have two children, Addison and Austin.
"He's a fantastic father," Deanna told E! Online in 2018. "My children love him a lot, more than they love me probably."
Clearly, love does exist, but sometimes you need to look past your own season to find it within the reality TV realm.