"Lubricant is still somewhat of a taboo subject when it comes to penetrative sex, whether with toys or a partner, because it's rarely depicted in porn or the media," Emily Depasse, MSW, MEd Human Sexuality, and sexologist told POPSUGAR.
"There is an unspoken expectation for folks with vaginas to be physically aroused and prepared for penetration when their partner(s) is/are, but that is rarely reality," she continued. Depasse recommends using lubricant because it can extend the duration of sexual play with oneself, partners, toys, ease pain or discomfort, and contribute to a more pleasant sexual experience.
Überlube ($18) is a silicone-based lubricant and is Depasse's favourite because "it feels most natural to my own lubrication." Irma also likes Überlube and said it's good for "almost any type of play."