You're damned if you say "I do" and you're damned if you say "I don't." Some people get shamed for marrying too young or too old, while others get shamed for not wanting to marry. Coming from a traditional family, I've been getting a lot of questions about when (not if) I'll get married as I inch towards my mid-twenties. Most of the time, I shamelessly answer curious relatives with a shrug.