What the heck kind of sex advice is breathe? If you're like me, you get lost in your head a lot. "Do I look good? What is he or she thinking? Should I change positions? If I tell them I like it like this will they think that I think they're incompetent?" Just breathe, baby. Let go of any expectations and worries. Breathe when you aren't having sex. Breathe when you are. You are enough.