That smiling couple on Insta isn't always smiling. They fight, just like everyone else. "It's important to remember that people always put the best on social media," Bennett said. You see the cute couple photo, not the 30-minute fight before the photo and the hours of the "silent treatment" later that night. "Comparing your relationship to the relationships portrayed on social media isn't a good idea," he continued, adding that you're bound to feel unsatisfied and create tension.