Venus in Libra: The People Pleaser This placement is often gracious and charming, which often brings you no trouble when it comes to love. Unfortunately, it also means that you can have a hard time saying "no." Montúfar said this may be because you consider fair treatment to be of the upmost importance in a relationship, so may find yourself putting the feelings of others in front of your own. Image Source: Unsplash / Giulia Bertelli