The Bridesmaids Should Pay For the Drinks Tab As much fun as you're having, there's probably a lot of alcohol flowing as well. It's bachelorette party etiquette for the bridesmaids to pick up the bar tab. If you're nervous about dropping too much dough on blurry memories, look into budget-friendly options like finding bars that offer wristbands that include food and drinks or buying pitchers for the table. Image Source: Getty / Hill Street Studios