As the oldest of three, I'm usually the person who's charged with finalizing the holiday schedule. My brother is in college and my sister lives out of state, so I'm always happy to take over. With that being said, I never agree to anything without running the date and time by them first, otherwise where we're going and when can get confusing. And obviously, I want to spend the holidays with my siblings, so making sure we're all together is the top priority.