"This isn't a special fairytale. This is two people who worked really hard and it's attainable for you if you work really hard in your marriage too."
"Rejoice in what makes the other person happy, and allow them their individual interests. Know that everyone is doing the best they can with what they've got. So get a bigger emotional toolbox to fix your problems."
"I think what alleviates the pressure-cooker of monogamy is understanding that your partner's attraction to someone else is nothing to do with you. I talk about who I'm attracted to in front of Dax, and he'll say: "I could never pick your type out in a line-up!"."
"All these movies from the '80s taught us that it's love at first sight, and it is supposed to be easy and [that] all you have to do is find that person. It took me a while to realise, 'Oh, that was such a lie,' because things that you work really, really, really hard for always yield the best results."