Kupah James How you know him: Kupah James is known for being one of the most physically perfect specimens on Kaitlyn's season of The Bachelorette. Why he's a catch: James is an incredibly successful fitness instructor, personal trainer, and touring DJ who has performed for the New England Patriots, Boston Red Sox, and even former president Bill Clinton. What he looks for in a woman: "A sense of humor is huge for me, and I'm also attracted to a woman with a strong sense of security," says James. "A sense of security within a woman can say a lot for what kind of partner she could be for a man. I also need to personally believe that she is 'True North.' How I define 'True North' is an unmistakable purity to the way she moves."