She Hasn't Had a Serious Relationship Since Her First Love in High School Being just 21, Kit lived it up single after her high-school relationship and is entering The Bachelor since she's ready for a serious commitment. She told ABC that "she hasn't found a man who can measure up to the level of emotional intelligence she needs" and has found most guys don't meet her maturity level. She's hoping Matt will, as she's looking for a man who is genuine, open, and honest. She has self-professed high standards, but "she has no doubt that Matt will be able to live up to the hype." Only issue? Men in flip-flops make Kit mad, so hopefully Matt isn't into them?