For Katie, It's All About the Right Vibe — and Lots of Laughs It's no secret Katie loves a good laugh, so although she's serious about finding the love of her life, she "needs a man who can laugh along with her" and even laugh at her too "when the moment calls for it." But all humour aside, the Bachelor fan-fave is looking for a mature man with ambition to succeed in everything he does, whether in regard to his professional or personal goals. Her dream man? Katie says he must be "passionate about building a long-term life with her" and treat her "as his equal in the relationship." Last thing? Her biggest turn off is a guy who sits around all day playing video games, although kissing her at the wrong moment is pretty terrible, too. For Katie, it's all about the right vibe.