"This is a little cliché, but that doesn't mean it's not true: don't get hung up on the small stuff. You decided to spend the rest of your life with this person for a reason; are a few dirty dishes in the sink really going to change that? With every potential argument, try to ask yourself whether this is going to matter in five years. If the answer is yes, then by all means duke it out. But usually the answer is that it won't even matter in 24 hours, so there's no reason to waste time and energy on it now." — Mandy Harris, POPSUGAR managing editor