Some couples still like spending the night apart before the wedding, and if you've got a gaggle of bridesmaids, it can be a lot easier logistically. But, consider that from the moment your families arrive two weeks early "to help," you're going to be manic, everyone is going to have questions. and something will need doing. Spending the night before your wedding together, and having breakfast together the next day, might be the only bit of peace the two of you get for a while. Grab it.