Rows of family members all looking stilted at the camera don't really say happy wedding. If that's not what you want, ask your photographer to take a more candid approach. You can still get those family shots, but it'll look like you're having fun in the moment instead of waiting for a bus. Instant cameras and a makeshift photobooth will also help you capture natural pics. Your formal photos are never going to be your favourites from the day, so don't stress about them too much.