When you were in a relationship, it was all about conquering life together as one unit, but now that it's over, you have the extraordinary gift of selfishness. You can focus entirely on your own goals and desires, and this is usually the time when you're the most inspired to take chances. You've always wanted to learn how to play the piano? Do it. Go on the trip your partner never wanted to take. Enroll in the yoga certification classes that would've taken you away on date night. Focus on yourself, and do all the things.