Real talk: while we're keen not to make a list of impossible resolutions, but we are keen on taking control of our lives and that means tackling the tricky things. Self-care isn't always about bubble baths, it's also about stopping niggling anxieties. It's not fun, but the effects are quick and pretty dramatic. Call your bank to sort that savings account. Research new energy providers. Book that smear test or dentist appointment. Clean out the messy pile of papers. Reward yourself afterwards; you've earned it.