Prior to the cut, I would straighten my hair multiple times a week. When my hair broke off from too much heat damage, I was forced to wear it in braids. Attempting to conserve money, I did them myself. I felt nervous to wear these makeshift braids to work, in fear of how harshly I would be judged. It took me back to grade school when I would beg my mom to wear my hair wet with conditioner to school. That was the only way for my curls to look hydrated and — to my young eyes — beautiful. Luckily, my mom always said no. She understood the beauty of natural hair and more importantly, she knew Black hair can't be exposed to all elements and weather. That is why we, as Black women, enjoy protective styles — it does just that: protects our hair.
Why Black Employees Shouldn't Need To Defend Their Hairstyles
While sheltering in place, I've found myself wearing more protective styles. More braids, cornrows, and bantu knots. I've gotten to a point where I really like what my hair looks like in these protective styles, often thinking, "Wow, this is cute. I can totally wear this to work." There is something wrong about that statement. I had to reassess why I was perfecting these styles in private, to later go on 'display' in the office. Why was I putting in so much work to have these hairstyles 'work ready?'
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