Lucky (or unlucky for me, who knows?) I met someone shortly after this breakup when I wasn't looking. And when I tell you that this man is on-paper perfect, he is. If my mother had met him, she would have said, "Em, this is exactly the man Dad and I want for you."
I picked a part everything about him. I sobbed alone in the bathroom after the first time we had sex. I spent an amazing weekend away with him and could only think about doing it with my ex, and not him. The man started out losing and nothing he could do would ever make me happy. Just be prepared for this. While it may only last for one person, it could be two or three before you are ready to be receptive to someone else again.