Changing Your Name
Everyone is going to have an opinion on this. There are valid arguments to keep your own name and no doubt strong reasons to change it. You can double barrel, or even pick a whole new name for just the two of you, if you don't mind the extra paperwork. This is something that people will want to weigh in on, but you can only really do what feels right for you. This is a part of the wedding that your partner doesn't get much of a say in. It's your name for the rest of your life, and it's up to you what it is.