Once you and your person get the conversation going on the app, exchange numbers, and plan the first date ASAP. The last thing you want is to be chatting for a week via text, and by the time you actually have that first meet, all the momentum has kind of fizzled out. A coffee date, or after work drinks is a perfect first meet. Keep it short, light, and conversational, maybe an hour or two. This is the where you get out that personal spiel about family, education, work, previous relationships, and lifestyle preferences, but most importantly remember to ask — "So, why did you join Hinge?", that question will save you a world of overthinking and second guessing.