Find moments to relax. You can focus so much on trying to create a magical Christmas for your little one that you forget to stop and relax. So that you can show up as your best self during the holidays, take a few minutes out to kick your feet up and do something kind for yourself, like lighting an aromatherapy candle. My holiday gift to myself as a first-time mom was lush emerald green earrings, which put me in the holiday mood. Image Source: Getty / Compassionate Eye Foundation/Dav