Here's Who Sarah Shahi Dated Before Her "Sex/Life" Costar Adam Demos

Shahi and Howey first crossed paths in 2004 when the "Fairly Legal" actor guest-starred on an episode of "Reba." It's unclear exactly when they started dating, however, the couple got engaged in Hawaii in June 2007 and eventually tied the knot in Las Vegas in February 2009.

In July 2009, Shahi and Howey welcomed their first child, William Wolf, and six years later, they expanded their family again by welcoming twins Violet Moon and Knox Blue in March 2015. The "Shameless" actor opened up about raising three kids with Shahi in a December 2018 interview with CBS. "Anyone that says parenting is not hard is not doing it right. I don't see my friends anymore. I don't see my immediate family as much as I should. What my kids are teaching me is utter patience," he said before joking, "I don't really call it patience — I call it no murder."

Howey also praised Shahi's parenting skills by telling the publication, "My wife, Sarah, is the hero. Three kids — and starring in a TV series? That woman is a warrior!"

When asked how he and Shahi made their relationship work as two actors, Howey said it all came down to the couple trying to keep their life as "normal" as possible. "Life comes with a lot of, you know, ups and downs, but you go through it. That's my attitude. And being married to a [fellow] actor is so great because we understand each other's challenges," he said. "It's not easy in this business — you go to work where you're used to ordering beverages through a walkie-talkie at your whim, then you've got to go home and do the dishes. We live a life with many dualities, but in the chaos we make sure to keep a lot of normality in our family. Sarah and I — that'll be forever. It's epic."

In June 2020, Us Weekly reported that Shahi had filed for divorce from Howey earlier that May. "After much thought and consideration, we have decided to end our marriage," the pair said in a joint statement at the time. "We are so grateful for the past 10 years together and proud of our children that we've raised. As we enter into this new phase of our lives, our priority will remain co-parenting our children with so much love, mutual respect and friendship. And though our relationship is changing, we are committed to continuing our lives as a loving family."

Their divorce was finalized in April 2021, per Us Weekly.

Just months after Shahi and Howey announced their separation, the star moved on with her "Sex/Life" costar Demos. In a June 2021 interview with People, Shahi revealed that Demos immediately caught her eye when she first met him on set. "I said, 'Well, that's a tall drink of water.' When I first met Adam, I was really blown away with him," she recalled, adding that the pair clicked due to having so much in common. "We met in the makeup trailer and we just got on instantly. We had the exact same taste in music. We had the same taste in whiskey and tequilas and I was really blown away by him just as a person and all I knew was that I wanted more."

Shahi continued to praise Demos by saying, "And then I got an opportunity to act with him, and I will say, sitting across the other side of the camera with him was just a privilege. You're only as good as your scene partner. He's amazing in the show."

While Demos debuted Shahi on his Instagram with a behind-the-scenes photo from their show in September 2020, it wasn't until December 2020 that fans began to speculate the pair was more than just friends. On New Year's Eve, Demos shared an Instagram photo of himself lying in bed with Shahi. "Rats NYE," he captioned the shot, which showed the costars playfully hiding their faces.

In January 2021, Shahi officially confirmed they were together on Instagram by thanking her "love" Demos for making her 41st birthday feel "very special." And after spending Valentine's Day together that year, Shahi dedicated an Instagram post for Demo's 36th birthday that May. "Not exactly sure how two people on opposite sides of the world could have more in common, were meant to meet, were meant to be together," she wrote. "But I do know I met my soulmate. I do know I found my forever. I do know I've never loved deeper, harder, more ferociously. I do know I'm overly grateful for him. I do know I've loved him for a thousand lifetimes before and will love him for a thousand lifetimes more. Happy birthday my baby ❤️."

That December, the couple marked a major milestone together by making their red carpet debut as a couple at the 2021 People's Choice Awards. Four months later, Shahi was spotted wearing a ring on that finger in photos obtained by the Daily Mail, sparking rumours she and Demos got engaged. While Shahi and Demos have yet to publicly comment on the rumours, they're still happily together in 2023 based on their latest social media posts.