Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix's Breakup, Explained
Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss Apologise to Ariana Madix For Affair in Separate Statements
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The Bravo world was rocked on March 3 when "Vanderpump Rules" stars Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix split after nine years together. In the aftermath, numerous outlets reported that their split was because Sandoval cheated on Madix with their costar Raquel Leviss. Dozens of Bravo stars seemed to confirm the news on social media, including producer Andy Cohen who tweeted out a siren emoji and then asked, "How many parts is too many parts for the #pumprules reunion???" POPSUGAR reached out to reps for Sandoval, Madix, and Leviss for comment on the allegations but did not receive responses.
The internet has since been ablaze with Bravo fans trying to figure out what exactly happened between the three stars, but on March 8, Sandoval and Leviss both released statements apologising to Madix for their roles in the situation. If you're not a Bravo head, or are muddy on the details, here's a full timeline of the drama, including the new statements on the issue.
Who Are Tom Sandoval, Ariana Madix, and Raquel Leviss?
Sandoval, Madix, and Leviss are all cast members of "Vanderpump Rules." Sandoval and Madix met and became friends when they worked as bartenders at restaurants owned by former "Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" star Lisa Vanderpump before the show began filming. Sandoval was a cast member when the first season premiered in 2013, while Madix joined for season two the following year. Sandoval's best friend is fellow cast member Tom Schwartz, with whom he's started two restaurants: TomTom with Vanderpump, and Schwartz and Sandy's primarily on their own. Schwartz split from his wife, castmate Katie Maloney, in early 2022.
Leviss, meanwhile, was first introduced in season five as the girlfriend of cast member James Kennedy. The pair got engaged in May 2021 after five years together (Sandoval even helped Kennedy plan and pay for the over-the-top proposal). However, the couple eventually split that December.
During the summer of 2022 (and as filmed for the show, which is currently airing on Bravo), there were rumours that Leviss was hooking up with Schwartz and that their attraction came to a head at the wedding of cast member Scheana Shay in late August. Since the show premiered, Leviss has said that it was OK for her to be involved with Schwartz, despite Maloney's wishes, because she and Maloney weren't friends. Shay and Leviss appeared together on the March 3 episode of the "Chicks in the Office" podcast (which was released before news broke) and Leviss said, "Ariana [and Scheana] were the ones that really embraced me into this group and have been there for me since day one, so I know who my true friends are."
How Long Were Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix Together For?
Sandoval and Madix began dating in 2014. They bought a house together in Valley Village in 2019.
Did Tom Sandoval Cheat on Ariana Madix With Raquel Leviss?
On March 3, TMZ broke the news that Sandoval and Madix had split amid allegations of cheating involving Leviss and that "Vanderpump Rules" was filming the fallout. Other outlets quickly confirmed the news, as did some of their "Pump Rules" costars on Instagram, including Kennedy and Lala Kent. Madix reportedly found out about the affair on Wednesday when she saw Sandoval's phone and his texts with Leviss.
Sources told People that the affair had been going on for six months. During that time, Leviss continued to play up rumours that she was involved with Schwartz. She wore a TomTom sweatshirt to BravoCon in October, and when Maloney accused her of being a "fangirl," she wrote on Instagram that she mostly wore it to be comfy and added, "I also wore it to support BOTH of the Toms." She included #NumberOneTomStan.
Weeks later, Sandoval dressed as Leviss in the sweatshirt for Halloween, as Leviss memorialized in her Halloween Instagram highlight.
What Has Tom Sandoval Said About the Affair?
Sandoval posted a statement on his Instagram on March 4, asking that people not direct their anger toward Schwartz, who he says knew nothing about his actions until recently. He also asked that people not take their frustration out on their restaurant, Schwartz and Sandy's. "Hey, I fully understand and deserve ur anger and disappointment towards me, but please leave Schwartz my friends and family out of this situation," he wrote. "Schwartz specifically only found out about this very recently, and most definitely did not condone my actions."
"This was a very personal thing," Sandoval continued. "Schwartz & Sandy's might have my name on it, but also there are 3 other partners and 20 employees, who especially rely on the restaurant for income for them and their families. Just like TomTom, I'm a small part of a much bigger thing. Please direct ur anger towards me and not them. They did nothing wrong."
Sandoval went on to apologise to his partners who "have to suffer for my actions." He added that he would be stepping away from the restaurants for now "out of respect for my employees & partners." He concluded his post, "I need some time to address everything else. Sorry for everything." Sandoval did not mention Madix in that statement.
Hours earlier, Schwartz and Sandy's also posted a statement on Instagram asking people to be kind to the workers there who had "nothing to do with this unfortunate situation." The statement also called Madix "a good friend and a great supporter of the restaurant." Schwartz has not commented, but on Saturday fans posted photos of him at the restaurant greeting guests.
On March 8, Sandoval posted a new statement to his Instagram page, writing, "I want to first and foremost apologise to everyone I've hurt through this process. Most of all, I want to apologise to Ariana. I made mistakes, I was selfish, and made reckless decisions that hurt somebody I love. No one deserves to feel that pain so traumatically and publicly."
He continued, "I can only imagine how devastating this has been for Ariana and everyone around us. I feel really horrible about that. My biggest regret is that I dishonoured Ariana. I never meant to disappoint so many people, including out loving family and friends."
He then seemed to address "Vanderpump Rules" viewers, writing, "My love for Ariana was strong than any camera ever could have captured. Some of our best time together were never filmed. The same goes for some of our biggest struggles. I wish things happened in a different order and our relationship was not severely tarnished, and that it ended with the same respect for her that it began with. I owed Ariana better."
He concluded, "I am beyond sad that it ended the way it did. The choices I made hurt so many people. I acted in a way that clashes with who and how I want to be. I will reflect and work on myself. I have work to do. I always have, and I always will."
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What Has Raquel Leviss Said About the Affair?
Leviss released a statement to Entertainment Tonight on March 8, which began with her writing, "I want to apologise for my actions and my choices foremost to Ariana, and to my friends and the fans so invested in our relationships. There is no excuse, I am not a victim and I must own my actions and I deeply regret hurting Ariana."
She continued, "I am reflecting on my choices, speaking to a counselor and I am learning things about myself such as my patterns of codependency and addiction to being and feeling loved. I have sought emotional validation through intimate connections that are not healthy without regard for my own well-being, sometimes negatively affecting others and often prioritising the intimate connection over my friendships. I am taking steps to understand my behaviour and make healthier choices."
The statement went on, "Although I chose to be on a reality show accepting the good and bad that comes with it, beyond my own actions I have been physically assaulted, lost friendships, received death threats and hate emails in addition to having had my privacy violated."
Leviss concluded, "I have begun counseling to end my unhealthy behavioural cycle, learn to set stronger emotional boundaries and learn to protect my mental health. I don't expect sympathy, understanding or forgiveness. Right now I must focus on my own health and well-being and as I strive to be a better person moving forward, I will prioritise my mental health and learn from my mistakes."
Leviss's statement comes a day after it was reported by TMZ that her lawyers had sent letters to the "Vanderpump Rules" cast saying that the video on Sandoval's phone that Madix found was recorded without her permission, and that everyone who had the video should delete it. That same day, Leviss also served Shay with a restraining order, as confirmed by People, which seems to be related to Leviss's claim she was physically assaulted. Representatives for Shay did not immediately respond to POPSUGAR's request for comment.
What Has Ariana Madix Said About Raquel Leviss and Tom Sandoval's Affair?
Madix has yet to make a post or statement of her own, and she deleted her own Instagram account when the news broke. But her friend (and Sandoval's ex-girlfriend) Kristen Doute posted a video on Instagram on March 3 of the pair hugging. Doute assured fans that Madix was not alone and her friends were there supporting her.
Her brother Jeremy Madix also commented on Kennedy's since-deleted Instagram post about the news, writing, "It's funny to watch people social climb and be soooooooo fake that they're willing to sh*t on people that are supposed to be their 'best friend' (a term that gets thrown around very often around here) all just to come up or have some sort of story line," according to Us Weekly.
Will the Cheating Drama Be Part of "Vanderpump Rules" Season 10?
The "Vanderpump Rules" cameras are back on and filming the fallout of the cheating allegations, and that footage will be included at the end of the season, which is currently airing. Multiple cast members have posted photos of themselves filming talking heads for new episodes, and there are numerous rumours about scenes filmed between Madix and Sandoval, and Leviss and Sandoval.
The show has yet to film the season's reunion, which, according to Cohen on his March 6 radio show, is scheduled to take place in two weeks. However, it's not clear how the restraining order against Shay will affect filming, which typically involves the entire cast together in one room.
— Additional reporting by Victoria Edel
