"Breakfast in Bed" by Ella Mai A common theme among Ella Mai's music is the power of a woman's sexual and romantic interests, as she has an incredible self-awareness of herself and her desires. "Breakfast in Bed" is one of the sexier songs by Ella Mai, where she takes control of her sexuality in regard to what she wants from her partner. It's a fascinating twist in a usually male-dominated industry about men outlining their sexual fantasies.