Diana and Charles stayed at the home of Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall, and her former husband, Andrew Parker Bowles, before their wedding. Ahead of their July 1981 nuptials, Diana and Charles joined Camilla and Andrew at their Wiltshire home on two separate occasions. A few years later, it was reported that Charles and Camilla were having an affair.
Charles became increasingly jealous of the public attention Diana received after their wedding. One reporter cited that Charles realised he was taking "second place" to Diana. "He knows it's the princess people have come to see," the reporter said in a voice-over featuring a clip of Diana and Charles greeting the public. Charles even cracked a joke about needing two wives during one of their royal engagements. "I've come to the conclusion that really it would have been far easier to have two wives to have covered both sides of the street," he said. "I could've walked down the middle directing the operation."
Charles went to play polo less than one hour after he and Diana returned from the hospital with Prince Harry following his birth. "He has always carried on, ever since he got married, as if he were a bachelor," one reporter said. "He's made absolutely no concession, and he never did, almost no concession at all to being a married man with the responsibilities of a wife and now two children." Meanwhile, Diana felt that her role was to support Charles by encouraging him and being his wife and mother to his children.
Diana was called a "monster" for wanting to lead a more private life. Similar to Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, Diana announced her withdrawal from public life during a charity luncheon in December 1993. "When I started my public life 12 years ago, I understood that the media might be interested in what I did. I realised then that their attention would inevitably focus on both our private and public lives. But I was not aware of how overwhelming that attention would become, nor the extent to which it would affect both my public duties and my personal life," Diana said in her speech. "When I've completed my diary of official engagements, I will be reducing the extent of the public life I've led so far." Many criticised her decision to step back, with one reporter saying it would have "untold damage to the royal family and the institution of the monarchy."
The public almost turned on Queen Elizabeth II for taking so long to address Diana's death. When news broke that Diana had died in a car accident in August 1997, the queen received major backlash for waiting five days to publicly address Diana's death. She was also criticised for not returning quickly enough to London and failing to appear at tributes near Buckingham Palace. One woman said, "Our queen should be here in London with her people. This is her nation, and they should know how all her people feel about Diana."