Life Lessons from Dear Dolly by Dolly Alderton
8 Life Lessons I Picked Up From Dolly Alderton's New Book, "Dear Dolly"
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You might not think of it this way as you nervously prepare to meet your partner's parents, whether that is at their familial home or somewhere more neutral like a restaurant, but you are actually the one with the upper hand, according to Alderton. And now that I've reframed this often tricky social situation that way, it's definitely changed my thoughts on the matter.
Sensitivity, diplomacy, and patience is key, rather than attempting to bulldoze your way in. Your partner has chosen to share their life with you so Alderton says its time to show the parents why, rather than simply stating it. She recommends subtly approaching them for their advice on something like a future birthday gift for your partner or what homeware to buy. Or something as simple as asking for the recipe after you've enjoyed a meal that they cooked.