If they won't provide any social media information, that's a problem. "It's very common to exchange basic social media information so you can get to know someone before you meet them," David Bennett, counselor and relationship expert with Double Trust Dating, told POPSUGAR. If you meet in person, and if every time you bring it up, they come up with an excuse why they can't share theirs, there may be someone in their life they don't want you to see, he adds.