OK, we all have a list of qualities that we want in a potential mate, but being on Love Connection taught me that sometimes the things we want in our partner in crime aren't necessarily the things we need at the particular place we are in our lives. It's true I'm a sucker for the tall, dark, and handsome gents, but what about his heart? What about his intent? Is he gracious? Does he love his mother? Ironically enough, I never thought about any of that until the show. What about being present in the moment? What about culture and being able to hold a conversation? These characteristics, and more, are what I need to feed my soul, my daily grind, and most importantly, my heart.