"You," Not "We," Matter Most Now When you begin putting "me" before "we," there is a clear sign that something is missing in your relationship. Taking steps to get back into including your partner into activities and things that you want to do solo may allow you to fall back in love with them. Additionally, creating more "we" moments can also rekindle the romance. Switching your mentality back from making "me" decisions to "we" decisions can also aid in this process. Image Source: Unsplash / Justin Follis