Seeing Them Isn't Fun Anymore The butterflies are gone, and the feelings of dread, exasperation, or boredom are creeping in. In this case, time apart may be the best medicine. A few days — or even a week or two — apart may be just what you need. Spending time alone without having to see them may make you realise how much you miss them and bring the butterflies back where they belong. Image Source: Edward Lai Photography