The pressure to be "good in bed" is everywhere, and it can create a lot of stress. According to Susan Coots, a Professor of Human Sexuality at Syracuse University, "So much information about sex comes from unrealistic sources, like porn, that it's normalizing and reassuring for people to know that what they do or like is normal," she told POPSUGAR. Everyone is different, and having friends to talk to, or even relate to you, can feel like a huge weight off your shoulders.