Sex toys aren't limited to solo-play anymore, thanks to modern technology. There are so many internet-enabled adult toys on the market, and some of them can be remotely controlled even from different continents. "Why not get your hands on some paired playthings? With some toys, the motions one person makes with their vibrator or stimulator are mimicked by their partner's bit of kit, so it feels like you're moving together," says Fox. "Some of these toys are pricey, but this type of technology is becoming a lot more affordable." Fox recommends toys from brands like WeVibe, KIIROO, The Handy (superb for penises), Lovense, and Vibease (whose toys also sync with explicit audiobooks, so you can feel along with a story you're listening to!). "A fun, low-stakes, it's-cool-to-laugh way of talking about your desires and broaching the concept of toys can be to chat about what you'd invent if you were to design your own fantasy sex toy together," Fox says.